A Knot to Have and to Forever Keep

I never had a vivid picture of what my dream wedding would be. All I know was that it would be a church wedding and that I will be in white - the details of which I let the future decide. Then that future came and told me that a grand wedding is not meant for me, but rather a simple one witnessed by people we know and dear to us. My hubby and I are very much proud of our wedding for it went well even though we only had barely three months to prepare. Although it was a simple one, the preparation was still physically, emotionally and financially ( to be honest!) exhausting. The  preparation was indeed a test of love, patience and understanding we have for each other. Since we were having the wedding on a tight budget, I would like to share to you how we managed to have a wedding worth to be remembered.

Invitation Cards - We made it ourselves! We both decided on the paper and the motif. I was in-charge of the wedding program and my hubby took charge of the design.

 Bouquet - Two dozens of red and white roses arranged by my hubby (ironically, I know little of flower         arrangements :"> )

Souvenirs - pre-designed souvenirs bought in Divisoria while the tags were designed and printed by my hubby (who else will? ;) )

Food and Reception -  Catered by Buma Seafood and Restaurant in Tiendesitas. The manager and his staffs were accommodating. The manager even gave us a discount! :D We had around 50 guests and they said the food was great.

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Wedding Gown- I did not go for a custom-made gown for there's not much time left. Good thing we got a ready-to-wear gown in Divisoria that suited my style and size at a good price! It is a white gown with a fitted bodice detailed with beads while the train is accented with mesh and some beads. I had my maid of honor fitted the gown for me. So if you are buying a ready-to-wear gown and yo do believe in superstitions, better bring with you someone who has a similar body frame with you. :)
   

Groom's Attire - My hubby opted for a cream-colored jusi barong with embroidery and paired it with black pants. He would always go for comfort over style when it comes to dressing up. He looked good in barong though. :x

Secondary sponsors - This part I owe to the sponsors themselves. I let the my bridesmaids decide for the design of their dresses as long as the color is aligned with the motiff. While for the groomsmen, I just provided them with the maroon undershirt. Big hugs to all of them for being so considerate. >:D<  >:D< >:D<

 Wedding Cake -A simple two-layered cake for my simple wedding. :) I also liked that the cake was gift-inspired because it was actualy a gift from one of our ninangs. ;)

Church - We did not go far for the choice of church. We got married at Sto. Rosario de Pasig-just a short distance from where I live. With additional fees, the parish took charge of the church decoration, carpet, lights and choir. It's a good idea for couples like us who can not afford hiring a wedding coordinator. :) I really loved the look of the church at that time. The real poinsettias (an indispensable Christmas decor) at the altar was a perfect match with our maroon motif. ;)

The wedding is the first ceremony that has to be undertaken together by two persons who are in love. It marks a new chapter in the couple's lives wherein love and patience is tested all the time. It is a day of union wherein God is your major sponsor and the Indispensable Being in your entourage. No matter how much or how less you prepare for it, be it extravagant or just simple, there will be no assurance of a "happily ever after" ending. Ah! Getting married...the best and worst is yet to come ! :)